Posts Tagged ‘BDSM’

Of Wine, Women and Water Sports – Submission Fetishes and the Heterosexual Male

Wednesday, September 15th, 2010

What do a bottle of Montrachet 1978, a supermodel and a golden shower have in common? Most guys will never know the pleasure of any of them. And for the great majority, only two out of three are to be lamented. For a select few of us, two out of three still holds true but only because there’s not much to be attracted to when it comes to supermodels.

I don’t know when bony haunches and spindly frames became sexy outside because they sure as hell aren’t in my house, but I digress… This article is about submission fetishes, or rather, an examination of what drives men who appreciate them.

Water sports are a fringe fetish, but they’re really no different from several other fetishes in the same vein. Foot worship, queening (ass worship) and strap-on sex share the same basic underlying theme but with different methods of domination, submission and humiliation. Why some choose one fetish over another probably has more to do with the individual’s perception of what constitutes submission rather than the actual act.