Anal sex can be intensely rewarding for both women and men, but in order to make it pleasurable both giver and receiver need to know what they’re doing. Unlike the vagina, the anal sphincter is not designed to accommodate inbound objects easily or readily. Understanding how to properly engage in anal sex will lower discomfort, lessen the chance of injury and increase the satisfaction of both partners. Below are 5 easy tips for beginners or experienced back door adventurers that can make all the difference when it comes to anal sex.
Step 1: Get Past The “Why” And On With The “How”.
The first step is purely philosophical but just as important as the mechanics of anal penetration. One of the quickest ways to ensure a bad time is to be hung up on whether or not anal sex is for you. For some, the answer is and always will be no. End of story. For the rest of us, it’s at least a topic of interest that merits consideration. But consider well and be confident with your decision, because being on the fence can lead to trouble. If you’re timid, scared or have any moral quandaries about anal sex, you’re probably better off waiting until you’re certain it’s something you want to try. That’s a decision you have to make for yourself. You shouldn’t let a partner make it for you or coerce you into something you’re not ready for.
