Lube: Great for Naughty – Equally Great for Nice

November 8th, 2011

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Lubrication has come a long way since petroleum jelly or KY.  From the mid 1990′s forward, there have been more new personal lubrication options available each year than there are visible stars in the night sky.   Yet strangely, lube still isn’t getting the credit it deserves.   From a masturbation aid to a stimulant to a plain old…well…lubricant, I’ve never met a single sexually active person who hasn’t benefited at least occasionally from its use.

And yet, like so many things associated with sex in our puritanical society, lube gets an undeserved bad name.  From the connotation that personal lubrication is only useful for sticking something somewhere it wasn’t designed to go to the equally damning misconception that one shouldn’t need it “if the plumbing works”, lube is one product that can’t seem to get a fair shake.

Use A Cock Ring To Heighten Your Orgasm

October 24th, 2011

Cock RingCock rings are one of the most misunderstood pieces of male jewelry, due in large part to their association with vacuum pumps used to correct erectile dysfunction.  In truth, most cock ring wearers don’t suffer from any ED issues but rather want to delay orgasm and retain firmness over a longer period of time.   This is a useful benefit whether you can get hard with or without some assistance.  Male strippers are known to wear them as they keep the phallus erect through dancing, flirting with bachelorette party housewives and anything else they decide to do for a buck.  They’re also popular in fetish circles, where men are constrained by their partners into waiting to be told to orgasm.

But what do these simple yet effective penis accessories offer the average guy?

Rabbit Vibe Rennaisance

October 17th, 2011

Rabbit VibratorSince the 90′s, rabbit vibes have been one of the most popular sex toys sold.  Though the initial versions of the rabbit were a solid effort to offer both clitoral and vaginal pleasure, they left much to be desired.  For starters, the models that sprung forth from the “Jack Rabbit” were often made of jelly, which isn’t the worst material in the history of sex toys but leaves much to be desired in the smell department.  Second, most offerings had one vibration speed that applied to the whole unit.  And finally, few were waterproof, which meant they couldn’t be used in the bath.

Sexy Halloween Costumes

October 8th, 2011

Officer Female Halloween CostumeAdult Halloween parties are great fun, and the element of seeing who’s wearing what (and how good they look) makes them even more exciting. From costumes with a lot of originality to couples costumes to genuinely scary costumes, everyone has a chance to step outside themselves, assume a new persona and just have a good time.

But really, what can compete with a sexy Halloween costume? Not only are they more comfortable than two adults sharing a horse outfit, but after the novelty of all the vampires, ghouls and goblins wears off, you’ll still be looking great.

Hung Up on Hanging Lingerie

September 17th, 2011

loose fitting lingerieI love lingerie, and I think most other men appreciate it as well. It accentuates a beautiful figure and can effectively spice up a not so beautiful figure. While we have little choice but to go with the robe (which is too domestic without a good cigar), boxers (ye old standby) or briefs (grow up, man); women have many options when it comes to dressing up for the main event.

One option that I’m a huge fan of that unfortunately gets overlooked all too often is hanging lingerie. There’s something irresistible about a woman’s legs when the rest of her is a bit of a mystery (even if it’s a mystery you’ve solved before). Sometimes leaving something to the imagination is far better than the sensory overload that comes from bustiers and corsets. Like a beautifully wrapped gift that needs to be opened with care, hanging lingerie is a good mix of casual, comfortable and captivating.