Size really isn’t as important as men generally think. That little known fact notwithstanding, a less than fully erect penis in combination with low stamina can be a killer in the bedroom. With the success of Viagra, drug companies, supplement manufacturers and unfortunately snake oil salesmen have all come out of the woodwork to cash in on man’s insecurities when it comes to penis size and the ability to get and maintain an erection. But snake oils aside, many of the products on the market today do work extremely well, which begs the question; “Would I be a good candidate for sexual enhancement?”
The answer for most men is a firm…maybe. It really all boils down to whether or not you’re pleasing your partner(s). As a guy, you know when you have an “on” night and an “off” night in bed. If the difference between your on and off nights are enough to classify sex as being memorable versus mundane, then sex enhancement is something you might want to consider. If you find yourself having trouble maintaining an erection because of the multitude of factors that can wreak havoc on your sexual performance (poor diet, lack of exercise, stress, etc); sex enhancement can help. If you take longer to warm up than in your youth (which is something that affects all of us eventually), then sex enhancement might be a good option. And finally, if you notice she responds quite a bit better when you’re just a little harder and consequently a little bigger, then yes, sex enhancement can give you a little more to work with.
But let’s be clear…there are no pills, potions or magic formulas that can grow a man’s penis.
The very best sex enhancement can do is fully engorge your penis – and that’s nothing to sneeze at. A fully engorged, rock hard cock is going to please her a lot more than a half limp dick regardless of your size. Not only is a fully engorged penis larger and firmer, but it’s also a visual indication of how excited you are. A woman wants to know that the man she’s sleeping with is excited to touch, feel and caress her body. Being as firm as you can be is the most visual indicator she has. Sex enhancement products can also give you greater confidence in bed by allowing you to get hard faster and stay hard longer.
Now that we’ve covered the “why”, let’s talk about the “what with”. We sell a large number of sex enhancers for men, and each of them has been tested to ensure it will do exactly what’s promised. Of course, if you have a psychological or physiological barrier to sexual function, you’re going to want to visit your doctor. But for those who just want to ensure they’re firing on all cylinders, so to speak, there are a number of exceptional options.
For most men, discretion will be the deciding factor. There are supplements that should be taken daily, one-shot pills that can be taken twenty to thirty minutes before the action starts and even sprays that work almost instantly. Whatever is less intrusive to your sex life is probably going to be the best choice for you. But making your junk “all that it can be” is just the tip of the iceberg. There are formulas to increase ejaculate volume, desensitizers to help those who shoot a little too quickly last longer and libido enhancers for those who just don’t feel up to the task on a regular basis.
For the ladies, sexual enhancement is usually a matter of solving an issue pertaining to libido or function. In regard to function, many women suffer from a very common barrier to sexual fulfillment that stems from an inability to secrete or maintain moisture. This is a job for lubrication and not really within the realm of sexual enhancement. For those who have libido issues, however, female sexual enhancement products can help put you in the right frame of mind for enjoying sex to the fullest.
The two most common sexual enhancement products for women are supplements to mentally induce libido and gels or creams to physically increase libido. Supplements work by imitating the chemical precursors that usually precede sexual excitement, thereby jump-starting the mind’s journey into sexual thoughts, after which the body follows suit. Gels and creams are localized and designed to work from the bottom up rather than the top down. Some are designed for clitoral stimulation and sensitizing while others are for G-spot stimulation. Which is the best option depends on the person. For size issues, (namely the feeling of being too large), there are applications that contract the vaginal walls and provide more contact between partners. These can be especially helpful for women who are naturally hyper-lubricated.
